Why Men Are NOT Afraid of Commitment

I want to debunk the myth that men are afraid of commitment.

Many women believe that their boyfriends don’t commit because they are afraid of commitment, and I believe that is inaccurate.

Here you will learn why it’s inaccurate and what you can do to get your man to WANT to commit to your relationship!

The common myth is that men are afraid of commitment. The reason why the myth is so prevalent is because, in the stereotype, women are the ones who want to settle down with one man and men are the ones who want to run around with many women.

There is some prehistoric and biological truth behind that myth. Biologically, men are designed to impregnate as many women as possible, so as to have as many children as possible to perpetuate the continuation of his DNA. This is evidenced because it often takes between 1 and 4 hours for a man’s sperm count to come back to normal after ejaculating. That means that a man could get a couple of women pregnant every day for years.

Women on the other hand, because of having to carry their babies for 9 months, are biologically wired to find a man who will stay with them to take care and protect her and the child in pregnancy and in the first few critical years of the childs life.

Today, that myth has spread to the modern man. Even though most men want to have a lasting, committed, meaningful relationship with a woman, they are still perceived as capable of flaking at a moment’s notice because of their biological wiring.

But I want to clearly state that men are NOT afraid of commitment. They are afraid of being FORCED into a commitment, because they (we) fear missing out on the experiences a single life can give them (us).

Your man may want to be in a committed relationship with you, but he fears that his life as he knows it is going to change for the worst. That he is going to miss opportunities and experiences he might otherwise have. This fear is unrealistic, because usually, by this point he is already faithfully committed to you, and never had those experiences that he thinks he will lose if he takes the next step in your relationship…

In order to have a man commit to your relationship, you need to let him come to the conclusion by himself that, if he is NOT in a committed relationship with you, then he is going to miss out, and not the other way around!

Commitment in a Nutshell

Most men want a committed relationship; we just don’t want to be pressured into one. And remember that men are not afraid of commitment. We just don’t want to feel that we are missing out on life experiences. If you show us that we are not going to miss out on the things we want, but that we are going to have those things in our relationship with you, then we will commit to you in a heartbeat and with a smile on our face. (And most of us will even think it was our idea:P ).

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